Today is the first anniversary of this blog and I would like to publish some articles that are some of my favourite for different reasons each one.
Bad Days
Everyone has his bad days and even months. This may be a result of something that happened in his life. The important thing is how do we do we manage to continue our life.
Every human has his unique way to deal with his problems. Some solutions (if you give one) are very similar and thus more common. However, there are and different ways to react, which are less common and expectable, and as a corollary this may create problems with the other people, who do not understand his reaction and they may misunderstand him. This is of primary importance when it comes to his relationship with his friends. His older friends will understand easier what he has, but the new ones …, well they have to react calmly.
I, personally, believe that our friends should not insist too much learning what is going on, when we have a bad day, because then they might get a wrong imression about what is going on. If the person that has the problem wants to talk about it, it’s ok, but if he doesn’t then it’s uselless trying to convince him. Of course, friends should always try to help each other and in this occasion they ought to make a trial in order to help their friend, but do not overdo it by insisting because this may have very negative results.
To sum up, even though the way we react to problems is unique and the way we deal with them subjective, in my opinion when you see a friend having a bad day, do not press him or her too much. When he wants he will talk…..
Bad Days
Everyone has his bad days and even months. This may be a result of something that happened in his life. The important thing is how do we do we manage to continue our life.
Every human has his unique way to deal with his problems. Some solutions (if you give one) are very similar and thus more common. However, there are and different ways to react, which are less common and expectable, and as a corollary this may create problems with the other people, who do not understand his reaction and they may misunderstand him. This is of primary importance when it comes to his relationship with his friends. His older friends will understand easier what he has, but the new ones …, well they have to react calmly.
I, personally, believe that our friends should not insist too much learning what is going on, when we have a bad day, because then they might get a wrong imression about what is going on. If the person that has the problem wants to talk about it, it’s ok, but if he doesn’t then it’s uselless trying to convince him. Of course, friends should always try to help each other and in this occasion they ought to make a trial in order to help their friend, but do not overdo it by insisting because this may have very negative results.
To sum up, even though the way we react to problems is unique and the way we deal with them subjective, in my opinion when you see a friend having a bad day, do not press him or her too much. When he wants he will talk…..
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